Glad things are heading in the right direction for her and for you, having a child who is struggling is distressing but she's lucky you're there for her. One of mine has , jut a couple of weeks before xmas, had his hours cut and since he and his family barely scrap by week to week, this was awful news. Their oil tank was nearly empty so I tightened my belt - even tighter- and emptied the "emergency fund" and got them a tank of oil. No way could I sit by my wood stove, warm and toasty, knowing my grandchildren were going cold. Like you, I can help out of preps with food and cleaning stuff. It's what it's for. Scenarios like this are actually the only time I regret my lack of wealth but you just do the best you can.jansman wrote: ↑Sat Dec 25, 2021 8:36 am Thank you. As a family ,we are not unique . None of us know what is around the corner,and a good job too,I reckon! Youngest is with us for a couple of days now ,and I am pleased to say that she informed us she has had a rather good pay rise at work. We did say things would get better.
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Sounds like you are doing a very good job. That’s parenting. Well done.izzy_mack wrote: ↑Sat Dec 25, 2021 9:10 amGlad things are heading in the right direction for her and for you, having a child who is struggling is distressing but she's lucky you're there for her. One of mine has , jut a couple of weeks before xmas, had his hours cut and since he and his family barely scrap by week to week, this was awful news. Their oil tank was nearly empty so I tightened my belt - even tighter- and emptied the "emergency fund" and got them a tank of oil. No way could I sit by my wood stove, warm and toasty, knowing my grandchildren were going cold. Like you, I can help out of preps with food and cleaning stuff. It's what it's for. Scenarios like this are actually the only time I regret my lack of wealth but you just do the best you can.jansman wrote: ↑Sat Dec 25, 2021 8:36 am Thank you. As a family ,we are not unique . None of us know what is around the corner,and a good job too,I reckon! Youngest is with us for a couple of days now ,and I am pleased to say that she informed us she has had a rather good pay rise at work. We did say things would get better.
In three words I can sum up everything I have learned about life: It goes on.
Robert Frost.
Covid 19: After that level of weirdness ,any situation is certainly possible.
Me.
Robert Frost.
Covid 19: After that level of weirdness ,any situation is certainly possible.
Me.
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Nothing to do with being a failure. I know how she feels, but once she gets over the initial shock of it all she'll bounce back - more resilient and stronger than ever.
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You all sound like you're doing a great job and 100 percent more than my parents would do for me, so don't be hard on yourselves!!!jansman wrote: ↑Sat Dec 25, 2021 10:35 amSounds like you are doing a very good job. That’s parenting. Well done.izzy_mack wrote: ↑Sat Dec 25, 2021 9:10 amGlad things are heading in the right direction for her and for you, having a child who is struggling is distressing but she's lucky you're there for her. One of mine has , jut a couple of weeks before xmas, had his hours cut and since he and his family barely scrap by week to week, this was awful news. Their oil tank was nearly empty so I tightened my belt - even tighter- and emptied the "emergency fund" and got them a tank of oil. No way could I sit by my wood stove, warm and toasty, knowing my grandchildren were going cold. Like you, I can help out of preps with food and cleaning stuff. It's what it's for. Scenarios like this are actually the only time I regret my lack of wealth but you just do the best you can.jansman wrote: ↑Sat Dec 25, 2021 8:36 am Thank you. As a family ,we are not unique . None of us know what is around the corner,and a good job too,I reckon! Youngest is with us for a couple of days now ,and I am pleased to say that she informed us she has had a rather good pay rise at work. We did say things would get better.
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Thanks. We are keeping her fed ,we gave her an electric fan heater,and bought a decent quilt for her,with the advice to live ( as far as practical) to live in one room. The girl ain’t daft ,as she was brought up here!
In three words I can sum up everything I have learned about life: It goes on.
Robert Frost.
Covid 19: After that level of weirdness ,any situation is certainly possible.
Me.
Robert Frost.
Covid 19: After that level of weirdness ,any situation is certainly possible.
Me.
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If she's living in one room one of the low wattage infrared panel heaters will be cheaper to run than most leccy heaters best fitted on the roofjansman wrote: ↑Thu Dec 30, 2021 9:02 pmThanks. We are keeping her fed ,we gave her an electric fan heater,and bought a decent quilt for her,with the advice to live ( as far as practical) to live in one room. The girl ain’t daft ,as she was brought up here!
If your roughing it, Your doing it wrong
Lack of planning on your part doesn't make it an emergency on mine
Lack of planning on your part doesn't make it an emergency on mine
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You beat me to it,She has the panel from our Summer house.Yorkshire Andy wrote: ↑Thu Dec 30, 2021 11:20 pmIf she's living in one room one of the low wattage infrared panel heaters will be cheaper to run than most leccy heaters best fitted on the roof
In three words I can sum up everything I have learned about life: It goes on.
Robert Frost.
Covid 19: After that level of weirdness ,any situation is certainly possible.
Me.
Robert Frost.
Covid 19: After that level of weirdness ,any situation is certainly possible.
Me.